FairSplitNow — § 1684 BGB Contact Rights

Stufe 01 — Sofort Umgangsregelung

Stufe 02 — Parallel Entfremdung

Stufe 03 — Langfristig Sorgerecht

Stufe 02 — Parallel · § 1666 BGB

Elterliche Entfremdung & Kindeswohlgefährdung

Once Stufe 01 is filed, every breach becomes court-admissible evidence. Stufe 02 runs in parallel — initiated by your Rechtsanwalt immediately after Stufe 01 is granted.

§ 1666 BGB§ 163 FamFGCFRA 2015§ 8a SGB VIII

Psych. Gutachten — independent psychological evaluation. Order immediately. § 163 FamFG Drogenscreening — hair follicle test, covers 90 days. § 1666 BGB Jugendamt interview — Frau Gamradt-Itri, formal report to Familiengericht. § 8a SGB VIII Verfahrensbeistand — independent child representative appointed. § 158 FamFG Breach log submitted to court file. [IE counsel] notified. Brussels IIb pathway open. EU 2019/1111

Evidence value drops with delay. Log every breach. Act now.

Stufe 03 — Langfristig · § 1671 BGB

Sorgerechtswechsel & Übertragung des Aufenthalts

Transfer of primary residence to the father. Full court proceeding. Only possible after Stufe 01 and 02 are on record. Enforceable simultaneously in Germany and Ireland via Brussels IIb.

§ 1666 BGB§ 1671 BGBBrussels IIbCFRA 2015

Criteria — all must be on record

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Stufe 01 filed — Umgangsregelung on record at Amtsgericht Pankow/Weißensee

§ 1684 BGB

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Documented breaches — minimum 3–5 incidents on record

§ 1666 BGB

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Psych. Gutachten completed — submitted to court

§ 163 FamFG

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Parental alienation documented — evidenced on record

§ 1666 BGB

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Jugendamt report filed — recommending intervention

§ 8a SGB VIII

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Ireland confirmed — ranked 5th globally (child development). Brussels IIb enforcement confirmed.

EU 2019/1111

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Irish legal counsel retained — [IE counsel], Dublin. CFRA 2015 recognises parental alienation.

CFRA 2015

Realistic timeline

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Now — Stufe 01 filed

Umgangsregelung + Einstweilige Verfügung filed. Brussels IIb file opens.

Weeks 1–8 — Stufe 02 parallel

Every breach logged. Gutachten + Drogenscreening ordered. Jugendamt interview.

Months 3–6 — evidence on record

Gutachten results in. Jugendamt report filed. Alienation pattern established.

Month 6+ — Sorgerechtswechsel filed

Full application. Court weighs all evidence against Kindeswohl.

Post-ruling — Brussels IIb enforcement

German ruling enforceable in Ireland. [IE counsel] activates.

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Step 1 of 4 — Parties

Your details — Applicant

The parent applying for contact rights (Antragsteller/in)

First name

Last name

Address

Phone

Respondent — Other parent

First name

Last name

Address

Email (if known)

Child / Children

Child 1

Full name

Date of birth

Current address / PLZ

Last confirmed contact

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Step 2 of 4 — Application type

Stufe 01 — Sofort-Umgangsregelung

§ 1684 BGB§ 49a FamFG§ 935 ZPOEU 2019/1111

Sofort-Umgangsregelung — immediate interim contact order § 1684 BGB + Einstweilige Verfügung — overrides waiting period § 935 ZPO Opens Brussels IIb file — cross-border enforcement EU 2019/1111 Stufe 02 parallel — Psych. Gutachten + Drogenscreening § 1666 BGB

Requested contact schedule

Specific days, times, handover location. Courts require precision.

Step 3 of 4 — Situation & Evidence

Factual account

Dates, facts, what was refused and when. No emotional language — courts respond to evidence.

Evidence available

WhatsApp / SMS messages (screenshots) Calendar manipulation / last-minute cancellations Birthday / significant dates ignored Jugendamt involvement / protocol refusal Previous court orders Chronological evidence log (written) Witness(es) available

Legal team

German family law — Berlin

[DE counsel — redacted]

[Address redacted]

Irish family law — Dublin

[IE counsel]

[Address redacted]

Submission forwarded to [DE counsel] for countersignature. [IE counsel] activated in parallel once Pankow file is open.

Step 4 of 4 — Review & submit

Application summary

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Stufe 01 — Filed

Application submitted

FSN-2026-0001

Your documents are being prepared and forwarded for countersignature.

PDF + Word document generated — emailed to you and courtdocs@fairsplitnow.org.

[DE counsel] receives copy for countersignature — 24hr turnaround.

Signed Antrag filed with Amtsgericht Pankow/Weißensee.

Hearing scheduled 1–3 weeks (§ 49a FamFG).

How it works

Three-stage strategy

Stufe 01 — Sofort

Umgangsregelung

Immediate interim contact order. Court-granted right of contact — legally enforceable. Combined with Einstweilige Verfügung to override any waiting period.

§ 1684 BGB§ 49a FamFG§ 935 ZPO

Stufe 02 — Parallel

Elterliche Entfremdung & Kindeswohlgefährdung

Every breach becomes court-admissible evidence. Psychological evaluation and drug screening ordered immediately — handled by your Rechtsanwalt.

§ 1666 BGBCFRA 2015

Stufe 03 — Langfristig

Sorgerechtswechsel & Übertragung des Aufenthalts

Transfer of primary residence based on documented alienation. Full court proceeding — Rechtsanwalt required. Enforceable simultaneously in Germany and Ireland.

§ 1671 BGBBrussels IIb

Submission process

Fill in the form

Both parents' details, child, situation, evidence. Around 10 minutes.

PDF Antrag generated

Formal German-language Antrag generated automatically and sent immediately.

Lawyer review & countersignature

Qualified Rechtsanwalt reviews and countersigns within 24 hours.

Filed with the court

Signed Antrag filed. Hearing within 1–3 weeks (§ 49a FamFG).

About FairSplitNow

FairSplitNow was built by a parent who experienced the system first-hand — the delays, the bureaucracy, the months of silence while the law sat on a shelf. The law is clear: both parents have a right to contact under § 1684 BGB.

This platform closes that gap. We are a document preparation service — not a law firm. We do not give legal advice. We get your application in front of a Rechtsanwalt and the Familiengericht as fast as possible.

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